An Office Affair: Just Say No!

The office affair. File it under "it seemed like a good idea at the time" or perhaps "I should have known better."

While I have worked with a handful of couples who met at work and ended up living happily ever after - at least so far anyways - having an office affair in my opinion is not a great long-term career decision.

Especially if it's a clandestine affair.

And it could be a career limiting decision with your employer if it goes REALLY bad.

I'm not referring to when two co-workers start seeing each other and where one or both of them are married to other people. If you need to be told that this is not a good idea, then an article probably isn't going to help you see the light.

I'm specifically referring to when two co-workers who are both single start seeing one another.

Certainly it can be difficult to meet that special someone and it's reasonable that when two single co-workers spend a great deal of time with each other that they might become attracted to one another.

Rather than trying to prove a point, I will instead list several possible outcomes of two co-workers having an office affair that you should think about before doing anything you may regret later on:

Think about the worst case scenario that could occur if things end poorly.

What would you tell a future potential employer about why you left your last job if it was because you were fired for having an office affair?

I've read some statistics that indicate that many couples admit to having met at work so certainly it does happen. Understanding your employer's policy and what the possible consequences are for having an office affair before starting one are paramount.

Even if you aren't fired, it could end up being a career-limiting move that lowers the opinion that co-workers and superiors have of you if things go bad and the gossip starts.